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Sunday, June 22, 2025

The Core Metric of the Damaged Psyche and Possible Solutions


"And because no one came to his birthday party, one week later we’re in a war." 

- a friend of Rebecca Solnit's


- No love received as a child

- Splits psyche to cover up feelings 

of unworthiness and shame 

(to avoid mental illness or suicide)

- Confuses attention with love

- Realizes attention most effectively 

gained through acts of destruction 

- Attention satisfies only briefly 

- Doesn't realize that love and attention 

are very different energies (love being

our sustenance, our life-source)

- Seeks more and more attention 

primarily through acts of destruction

in an attempt to receive love 


So perhaps we love them as souls while demonstrating that we've had enough

of their actions of lack, limitation and separation. 


Perhaps we do our own shadow work and heart-centeredness practices so when we

stand for the interconnectedness of all beings we're an inevitable force to reckon with.